Friday, November 23, 2012

The girl and her insecurities

Yesterday was her birthday. She was so happy that I sent her flowers. She went on and on about it when I took her out for lunch today. Then when we were running out of things to say, she began to tell me about this one man which commented about how she looks kind of fat in one of her pictures. Apparently, she was not happy, I told her that some people just do not care about how others will get offended. She ranted about how they exchanged remarks and ended when she un-"friend" this guy on FB.

Well, she looks just fine too me. Which I should tell her. Let this be a reminder that whenever she talked about how others are commenting on her looks or comparing her with her twin, I should always be on her side, boosting her sinking ego, uplifting her moods, hence making her feel secure about herself.

No one is perfect. That's why we are always comparing us with them. How we always wanted to be like somebody else. Now this is where your good friends should ALWAYS remind you that you are perfect in their eyes.

Well, the title is somehow biased because men too are insecure about themselves every now and then.

Thursday, November 15, 2012

Dating or simply hanging out?

After i poured out my heart last month, i think we were getting closer. I called her almost everyday and we went out together just the two of us at least once a week. Yesterday was a double whooper, I asked her for lunch date, we went out for lunch at Bubba Gum albeit she was not feeling all too well, then she asked for dinner at Banana Leaf but it was closed so we went for Basil instead.

I am now confused as always.